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WE ARE YOU!!

Please come let us reason my precious one. Come and hear me pour out my heart!  What is your identity?  What is your purpose?  What is the reason why you breathe? Each and every one of us has the freedom to do the things we wish to do!  Go the places we desire to, keep the friends we want to and engage in any business we feel is worth our efforts. If you want to play now and work later or work now and play later; that choice is yours to make. What you have is freedom and the right to exercise it.  To say what you like, when you like, to whoever you feel like. But do not allow this freedom to deceive you. As a friend of mine would have me say; "we are you!".  Your freedom is our freedom.  Your actions is our actions, your friends become our friends your enemies our enemies. The benefits of what you do today is for us and the consequences is also ours to bear. For such is the burden of ties. As my wife and as my husband as my brother and as...
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Expectations vs outcome

I remember now that scene from many years ago, something in the range of a decade how long exactly I cannot say with certainty. I remember I stood there in the audience above all others with my hands resting on the rail, listening to a brilliant speech by our seemingly eloquent speaker. He had come to our weekly place to speak to us about jobs and employment, the exact  occasion that warranted his  presence  is  something I can’t remember however, as I recall he stood there confident in his stride pacing the podium  as he  dropped nuggets of wisdom, with snippets of knowledge borne from  years of experience to spice it up.   He spoke to us about ways and practices to  overcome employment delays, scale through the most difficult interviews, make a fantastic impression and consequently seize the job from your would be competitors. But, just in the event  you do not belong to the class  of desperate job seekers he still had just ...
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#4 things absolutely Nigerian

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Nigeria is really one of the most fantastic countries anyone on planet earth can choose to live in  and  that’s not likely to change ever!!  Big deal if you don’t agree with me, but there are lots of fun stuff  to do.  There are worth typically dozens of articles littering the internet on that subject so I'll advice you to read up. Why exactly do I brag about the country Nigeria? Well here is a list of things that can happen in Nigeria which is unlikely to happen elsewhere. #1 Ex-president is a dance king. Don’t let the hardship fool you Nigerians are known for their  party life style and the love for dancing and  that includes our presidents, what can I say ex-presido OBJ slaying the beat, he  has gat the moves. Can u beat him? I think not #2 Transformers are friendly if you’re born and breed in Nigeria  someone must have told you to go hug transformer at least once  that one time you pissed them off,  but it...
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Seven signs to know when you’re angry

Anger is an emotion just like love, hatred, sadness,  happiness,  joy ,  fear amongst others now anger is usually a by product of fear  or a feeling of powerlessness over a situation  but anger unlike fear is directed at a person,  group of persons , organisations, or even our selves  there are two main reasons why people get  angry               *Something  we want to happen doesn’t happen              *something   we don’t want to happen actually does happen  Now there is obviously a lot that can be said about anger but it’s important we establish if one is angry or not.  Since it is actually possible to have a lot of bottled up anger without actually knowing it  you should delve through the following subtle signs to help you to recognize anger whenever you meet it.
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A day in the bank

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 Quick thought why is the entry door of the bank bigger than the exit door ?   that's the question i'm pondering  in my mind as I step into the banking hall already counting cash in my mind mentally trying to work out how much to spend on each of the numerous things I wish to purchase thereafter.  There is a queue as expected and its quite long but not long enough to deter me, so I quietly join the queue after asking one guard a few questions. To my delight, the four segment line moves quickly and i'm at the last segment under 10 minutes. To pass time, I halfheartedly admire a painting hanged somewhere in the banking hall. Its while I am trying to make some sense of the jagajaga painting that the unexpected happens. The lights go off and the annoying  beep of  numerous UPS take center stage.  The only light source is one rechargeable light shining from the managers office as though he was expecting the power outage chai! Now this is not ...
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Top five (5) reasons your friends aren’t active online

Y eah, so you finally get online after a while expecting to chat up with friends  and unlike before you can’t seem to find any of your friends online what’s  worse no one even left you a message??  Whoa this is so weird!!! Well that’s until it happens over and over and over!! Now it’s become the norm. pause and rewind what really happened??  Well sometimes friends can just stop being active ‘online’ for a lot of reasons like the ones below. They are busy : yeah I know you totally disagree it still doesn’t change the fact that they could be totally busy doing one of a thousand different things they have on their  to do list. Maybe one of them is ignoring you?? They’re just tired of social media:  sounds so lame I know but it’s a possibility they are one of those who have tasted the sour side of social media like a private photo leak or they kinda  believe that the social media rush was just a phase of life that’s now over  and they unto other more ...
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