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Please come let us reason my precious one. Come and hear me pour out my heart!  What is your identity?  What is your purpose?  What is the reason why you breathe? Each and every one of us has the freedom to do the things we wish to do!  Go the places we desire to, keep the friends we want to and engage in any business we feel is worth our efforts. If you want to play now and work later or work now and play later; that choice is yours to make. What you have is freedom and the right to exercise it.  To say what you like, when you like, to whoever you feel like. But do not allow this freedom to deceive you. As a friend of mine would have me say; "we are you!".  Your freedom is our freedom.  Your actions is our actions, your friends become our friends your enemies our enemies. The benefits of what you do today is for us and the consequences is also ours to bear. For such is the burden of ties. As my wife and as my husband as my brother and as...
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Top five (5) reasons your friends aren’t active online


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eah, so you finally get online after a while expecting to chat up with friends  and unlike before you can’t seem to find any of your friends online what’s  worse no one even left you a message??  Whoa this is so weird!!! Well that’s until it happens over and over and over!! Now it’s become the norm. pause and rewind what really happened??  Well sometimes friends can just stop being active ‘online’ for a lot of reasons like the ones below.
They are busy: yeah I know you totally disagree it still doesn’t change the fact that they could be totally busy doing one of a thousand different things they have on their  to do list. Maybe one of them is ignoring you??


They’re just tired of social media: sounds so lame I know but it’s a possibility they are one of those who have tasted the sour side of social media like a private photo leak or they kinda  believe that the social media rush was just a phase of life that’s now over  and they unto other more important stuff like watching movies?  N/B There’s no way they’re deleting their accounts and no way they’re chatting up either!

They’re celebrities … or they think they are?: wow this should really come first! yeah just about everyone can attest to this cuz celebs just don’t chat much with ‘non-essential personnel’ and you know what that means.

Its offline day:  so maybe they recently came across a  Caitlin Dewey articles while thinking time management or they’re sick or they’ve run  out of internet  subscription bottom line is they’re not just coming online today.  And that’s it!!

Avoiding  you: now am sure you’ve had this on in mind all along! Your ‘friends’ may pretty much be avoiding you  for a host of reasons, maybe your chat’s kinda lame and you don’t know when to end a chat or u ask to many unreasonable questions or you’re on their blacklist then again they may no longer have the hots for you. or maybe it has nothing to do with you perhaps it’s them; they may just want to see if u care enough to say hi or they really have nothing to say to you, or they’re so engrossed in another chat  it’s a kill time to chat with you. Whatever the reason and whoever is the cause they’d just rather stay at bay.
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